How minimalism and slow-living can enhance your happiness

Yo, another article about minimalism ?

Well, not exactly. Instead of going at this in a classic post, Imma try a different way: bullet points.

EVERYONE’s got time to read bullet points !

So, here’s a breakdown of my philosophy:

On a practical level,

  • Less stuff usually means
  • Less money spent, which also means
  • Less time spent shopping, which in turn means
  • Less need for MORE money.

Less stuff also means

  • Less time looking for stuff (phone, wallet, keys..), which leads to less decision fatigue. It also means
  • Less time spent on maintenance and cleaning (Floor, closet, doing laundry, washing piled up dishes and utensils)

Owning less stuff quickly translates into more fulfillment and appreciation:

  • You start enjoying what you have a lot more (less choice = more appreciation for what we have, ask your grandparents), it also means
  • More space, because your home now feels more spacious, cleaner, comfortable..notice how the best spas, hotels, yoga farms all have one thing in common: a minimalistic look and feel? It’s no coincidence, clutter wears us out.

Having less stuff also means

  • You now can be more lazy, since there’s nothing to clean up, declutter or “take care of”.

Furthermore,

  • The stuff that surrounds us is often a distraction to our peace. Achieving inner peace starts with decluttering the spaces we spend most time in. Get rid of all the junk sitting around and you’ll literally feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders.

On a personal level, owning less translates into:

  • Seeking less validation from others. When you stop filling voids with stuff and addressing your problems and insecurities, outside validation stops making sense and becomes irrelevant. 
  • The less you own, the less you’ll feel the need to compare yourself to others.
  • The less you compare yourself to others, the less you care what others think of you.
  • The less you care what others think of you, the less you need to boast.

Besides,

  • The less you own, the more time you have to pay attention to your loved ones and their wellbeing. Caring for other is important as it helps us find balance and steer clear of narcissism and self-absorption.
  • Owning less also means you can focus on more. Now that you have more time off, you can start conquering new grounds, getting out of your comfort zone and experiencing new things.

On a practical level, owning less and shopping less will leave you with:

  • More free time to do whatever you want and
  • Your home is now almost always ready to receive guests !

On an ethical and moral levels,

  • The less stuff you consume, the less exploitation and waste, which is great for the environment
  • Extra points if you love thrifting and vintage clothing !

Last but not least, on a neurological level,

  • Less stuff, decluttered and organized spaces boost creativity and productivity 
  • Owning less also increases mental clarity, hence my podcast btw (shameless plug)

All in all, marketing (and most importantly neuromarketing) and advertising are two extremely powerful tools, tools that can make ANYONE act irrationally.

Been there, done that !

The yearning for validation, acceptance and gratification is addictive and can easily degrade your mental health, your financial situation and your overall wellbeing.

Slow Living and minimalism, aka eco-essentialism, will save you from overt consumerism and all its rather evident pitfalls.

What to get a minimalist on a special occasion ? 

Gift-giving used to be fun.

Used to.

Gifts became customary as an expression of friendship, neighbourliness and peace between nations. It used to be a meaningful exchange of somewhat useful stuff.

Things’ve changed though.

Gift-giving quickly became something many of us dread. Even more so if you’re a mindful-eco-essentialist, aka a minimalist. 

When I first became a minimalist, I became so much more aware of all the things I was buying.

I refrained from buying so many things that used to feel “essential” but weren’t at all.

As I eased into this lifestyle, I learned how to make minimalism my own.

As time went buy, being a mindful consumer became second nature. Buying stuff wasn’t part of who I was anymore, quite the opposite actually.

Just like veganism, most people think minimalists deprive themselves from the things they once loved. 

WRONG. 

We just refocused our attention and energy on the things that truly matter, things that bring us happiness and FULFILLMENT. 

Consumerism is an addiction, a way we all use to fill the void in us. 

As a minimalist (or mindful-eco-essentialist), I don’t need to fill that void with stuff anymore, cause it ain’t there. 

Instead of packing my life up with shit, I now deal with my problems at face value. 

Grown up shit. 

Anyway, so as I eased into minimalism, I stopped feeling the need for excessive shopping, excessive eating, excess in everything. 

My minimalism soon turned into mindful consumerism, and then into mindful-eco-essentialism.

I still call it minimalism, but like I said in this post, the current terminology doesn’t do this exceptional movement and lifestyle justice. 

Anyway, back to the main topic. Here’s a list of gift ideas for your minimalist friends:

  1. Minimalists (myself at least) love experiencing new things and adventures. Take your minimalist friends and/or loved ones somewhere they’ve always wanted to go. It could be a trampoline park, a museum, a hike, an amusement park, whatever. Minimalists collect memories so this would defo make their day(s)
  2. Get them tickets to an expo, museum, spa. Entertaining a minimalist ain’t that hard, just do your research
  3. Food. Everybody loves food, so find what the giftee’s food preferences are and surprise them with their favorite snacks/dish/cakes/fruits
  4. Plane/train/boat tickets. We all love going places so if you’re about that life, a plane ticket could go a long way 
  5. Money. The safest choice of them all. We can all do with a bit of extra cash
  6. A replacement for something they’ve been complaining about. It could be a pair of socks, an ergonomic beanbag, a set of AirPods, a leakproof travel tumbler (or lay-flat water bottle), it all depends on your means and what said person truly needs
  7. Plants. I’d swap all my stuff with plants if I could. Plants add life to a room, they’re like cute, SILENT and barf-free little babies. Plants are awesome dawg !
  8. Printed photos of your adventures together. In the age of digital, some minimalists love being analog. Classic prints are awesome
  9. I love lectures and conferences, so if anyone were to get me free tickets to a lecture about a topic I care about, I’d be over the moon !
  10. Gas gift cards: gas is so expensive nowadays so if your minimalist friend owns a car, you know what to do !
  11. A handwritten note. The best gift I ever got from the wifey was a handwritten note expressing her love towards me. Works for friends too
  12. And on that same note (pun unintended), postcards. Extra points in you live abroad 🤩

Last but not least, do not, and I repeat, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES gift a minimalist clothes, utensils, shoes, trinkets, decorations or ANYTHING they haven’t asked for. 

We hate stuff, really, we hate stuff more than anything. 

WATCH: 18 Documentaries That Will Change the Way You Eat (with trailers)

Updated on December 31st 2022

This may come as a surprise to some, but prior to going vegan, I’d only met ONE vegan person in my entire life.

I was 25 years old when I went vegan.

The one thing that’s helped me (and many other vegans) learn about this lifestyle is documentary film.

Veganism was so underground back in the day. Before the Internet and Social Media, access to untampered data was quite a task.

People weren’t catered to, unlike what we’re seeing today.

So therein lies the importance of filmmakers and content creators, who are, IMHO, the real game changers.

I went vegan thanks to the first vegan documentary film I’ve ever seen. Cowspiracy was IT for me!

Thank you, Kip Andersen ! You’ve literally changed my life.

Below is a list of 15 eye-opening documentaries exposing the harms (and war) of animal agriculture, meat, dairy and fishing industries on the animal kingdom, on our health, culture and planet as a whole.

Let’s dive right in.

Dominion.

Probably the best one of all, Dominion shows the many ways in which animals are regularly abused. It thoroughly exposes the dark underbelly of modern animal agriculture through drones, hidden & handheld cameras. Available on Youtube.

Cowspiracy.

My personal favorite, along with next two on this list. Available on Netflix.

Seaspiracy.

Seaspiracy is the groundbreaking documentary which seeks to expose the fishing industries impact on the world’s oceans and overall environment. It tackles forced labor and animal rights in a never-before seen manner. A must watch ! Available on Netflix.

What The Health.

This film examines the link between diet and disease, and the billions of dollars at stake in the healthcare, pharmaceutical and food industries. Another must watch especially if you’re a health geek like me. Available on Netflix.

Forks Over Knives.

Forks Over Knives empowers people to live healthier lives by changing the way the world understands nutrition. Another masterpiece for health-conscious geeks. Available on Prime.

The Game Changers.

A documentary about plant-based eating, protein, and strength. Presented by James Cameron, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jackie Chan and many more. Available on Netflix.

Eating Our Way to Extinction.

A cinematic feature documentary, narrated by Kate Winslet (2021). A masterpiece.

Milked.

A feature documentary that exposes the whitewash of New Zealand’s multi-billion-dollar dairy industry.

Kiss The Ground.

Narrated and featuring Woody Harrelson (I love that guy!), Kiss the Ground is an inspiring and groundbreaking film that reveals the first viable solution to our climate crisis. Available on Youtube.

Earthlings.

An animal rights documentary by activist and Oscar-winning actor Joaquin Phoenix.

Plantpure Nation.

A documentary that highlights the importance of a plant-based diet for a health life and longevity.

Eating You Alive.

A documentary about curing chronic disease with a whole food plant based diet. Features James Cameron.

The Milk System.

This documentary sheds light on one of the filthiest industries and the harms of dairy on our health.

Land of Hope and Glory.

A documentary that features never before seen undercover footage of what goes on behind closed doors, by Earthling Ed.

HOGWOOD: a modern horror story.

“Through careful marketing and misleading labels, we are led to believe that farmed animals are well cared for and that eating meat is natural, normal and necessary. It’s time to uncover the truth.”

Vegan 2022 – The film (full).

Meat The End (full).

Land of Hope and Glory.

Bonus: Rotten. (Netflix Series)

A series that exposes what goes on behind the scenes to cater to our selfish culinary needs. Absolutely worthwhile.

Are you vegan? Have you ever considered going vegan? Do you understand what veganism is all about?

Drop me a line below, I’d be more than happy to help you transition and answer all your questions as best I can.

This is a judgment-free zone, allow yourself to learn and grow.

Waterfall in the french Pyrenees

How to ace your hiking trip in the Pyrenees

The Pyrenees form a high wall between France and Spain.

Such an beautiful region with so much to see.

Between the sensational hiking trails, lakes and all the wild animals, ranging from wild bears, hostile mountain nannies (goats), wolves to a whole bunch of grazing cows, the French (and Spanish) Pyrenees are a hiker’s place to be.

A few pics from our trips there.

Looking forward to our next trip there !

Life in Bordeaux

One of my latest podcast episodes touched on the difficulties most of us come up against when looking for a place to rent out.

I spoke about the current state of the banking system, the real estate business and landlords.

The whole talk came from a buildup in frustration as we’ve been looking to move to a new place for some time now.

That said, and by God’s grace and will, we have FINALLY found a spot that fit our expectations, here in Bordeaux !

Better yet, we officially moved into it on our 1 year anniversary !

It’s unfurnished (thank God!), with tall windows and high ceilings, which defo give it a certain cachet. The kitchen is amazing too.

Here’s what our sitting area looks like right now:

Our minimalist setup

The icing on the cake would be the unexpected backyard, where I’m (Tee) likely to be spending a lot of time learning how to grow fruits and veggies on my own ^^

Faith is a powerful thing, mayn. Put your faith in God, do your part and things will definitely work out for the best.

Beyond grateful !

11/10.

Artists are fascinating

My girl is my favorite artist of them all.

She can dance, draw, paint, she’s very handy and often makes amazing stuff out of thin air !

Some people were just born with that extra something, you know ?

I love simpin’ over her paintings and graffiti art, shit is truly mesmerizing.

Check this one out:

Echo by Mandy Rezeau-Merah, AKA Fuge

Pretty dope, innit ?

I would’ve loved to be so crafty. I mean, can you imagine being so deft that you can literally transcribe your imagination into amazing graffiti ?

Bruh !

I used to draw a lot as a kid, but then quickly grew out of it as I discovered the outdoors.

Being outdoorsy is cool but it’s hella time consuming fam !

I’ve noticed how most people from my generation know all the cartoons and series, always reminisce about their favorite shows and shit.

So, besides having always been an outsider, I’ve also never truly connected with my peers on that level. I spent most of my time outside, either climbing trees, riding bikes or kicking a ball.

The indoors was never for me, till now.

We all change I guess, don’t we ?

Here’s another one of my girl’s favorite creations:

ACAB by Fuge

Peace !

We meet people for a reason

We meet people for a reason.

Some will hurt you, others will build you up.

Some will help you grow, others will drain you.

Learn how to let go of those who don’t serve your wellbeing, don’t hold on to things and people out of sheer habit, learn how to value yourself and your time.

As a rule of thumb, I only hang out with those who recognize and understand my worth, friends who truly value my time and my presence.

It’s all about self-worth.

To Covid or not to Covid

I mean, with everything going on in the world right now, I decided to voice a rather unpopular (and informed) opinion about Covid vaccines: I personally don’t care whether people are vaxxed or not, I don’t.

However, I find it kinda strange that we’re all coerced to put a foreign biological preparation into our healthy bodies, no questions asked or else we don’t deserve some of our most basic human rights ?

Don’t you find that a bit weird?

Hear me out, I’m actually pro-vax.

Having always moved countries, my family and I are have been vaxxed more than the average person.

Case in point, if you’ve never left certain parts of Europe or North America, you may have never been vaxxed against the yellow fever. Yellow fever vaccines aren’t mandatory in many western countries.

But I have, and I’m glad that I did.

That’s just one example.

What I find weird about covid vaccines is all the propaganda and misinformation surrounding them. I hate that health matters are now being politicized. They shouldn’t be.

Same goes for topics like climate change. It shouldn’t be a right of left issue, it’s a human issue.

Anyway, I do understand that getting the shot may boost your immune system, help reduce the spread of this darned virus, decreases the chances of new mutations etc, what I don’t get is vaccine passports and vaccine mandates.

It’s even less comprehensive when you look at the potential risks and safety issues.

That being said, I may get vaxxed at some point, but long as I can do without, I won’t. Not because I’m anti-vax, not because I’m right or left-leaning, but rather because I don’t feel like I need it, nor do most HEALTHY people my age.

I think that makes perfect sense, don’t you ?

Thanks for reading.

Teekay

Living in contrast 

Contrast is so important man !

Not just in photography, but in life in general.

Hear me out.

The fact that some days SUCK ASS is the reason why the good days are so cherished, don’t you think ?

I mean, it’s only normal for some days to suck, life on earth was never meant to be easy, it’s just a test.

Life is also all about change. We change, the world around us changes, nature is constantly changing. We evolve forward (and backwards), and the only constants in this life are time and love !

The contrast between our best and our worst days helps us magnify the good things that happen to us.

I think that’s beautiful !

As beautiful as our fading bad memories and our ability to forget.

Can you imagine a life where you’d remember all the bad things that’ve ever happened to you ? Bruh !

No man can handle that many memories, so be thankful for your ability to forget, it’s a true blessing !

Also, here’s a memory I never want to forget, from a trip to Kenya ❤

Trip to Kenya

I love Instagram

Instagram can and has helped so many youngsters make money, real money !

Instagram gave me a platform to express myself unlike any other platform since MySpace and Skyblog.

Although I’ve always loved blogging, Instagram gave “documenting” a whole new meaning: documenting through real life pictures.

I grew up in a family that wasn’t very artistic.

I barely have any pictures from my childhood. My parents had an old camera but only used it for special occasions.

As such, I was never really exposed to photography till my teen years.

But then shit CLICKED ! It clicked instantly !

When I got my first phone, I took pictures of everything ! I loved following my friends around with a camera at hand, I loved macro photography, printing photos and drawing over them (yeah, weird) etc.

I used to post lots of pictures on Hi5 and Skyblog. Captioning was also super fun for me back then !

Facebook also brought the best out of me. I got my first proper camera, a Nikon 7200D or something in 2010 and it was a game changer !

Instagram wasn’t around back then, but you could feel something was cooking in that sense, cause Facebook just wasn’t cutting it for photographers.

Fast forward a couple of years, I opened my IG and the rest is just wild !

At some point I was posting twice to three times a day !

Instant gratification is a crazy phenom’ dawg !

I just LOVED the feeling of sharing pictures of my travels with people. I loved the likes, the comments. I simply loved the fact something I created was appreciated by people I’ve never met in my life.

A creator’s high is addictive.

Instagram has evolved a lot throughout the years. The rise of stories and DMs was also a whole different ball game.

The ephemeral side of IG stories is what made them so special.

2016/2017 was the season in which I posted the most. I was posting 5 to 6 stories plus 1 to 2 posts A DAY ! I used to spend so many hours editing, coming up with captions and taking pictures.

It was a fun time I ain’t even gon’ front !

I enjoyed the heck out of it, but it was draining, and not just physically.

It’s mentally draining to be constantly seeking instant gratification and compliments, it fucks with your mental health HEAVY.

So I took a big break from it all in 2018.

At first it was supposed to be temporary, but then I just lost the need for validation. I learned how to enjoy life on the sidelines, how to be alone.

A friend of mine once summed up my mindset perfectly. He said “vivons bien, vivons cachés“, which roughly translates to “to lived happily requires one to keep things private”, or “secluded life is the happiest” (English proverb).

Thanks Luc !

Instagram is such a powerful tool if you know how to use it to your advantage. Don’t waste it !